I need some advice

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I like pussy as much as the next guy,but I'd have to resort to the blue pill just to keep up with her.

Come on 48's not that bad, you're only two years older than Mr Brad Pitt.

Morgan Fairchild is 60 and I'd still hit

Doing this with your girlfriend is one thing, but I can't see this as a good thing with your wife. It would make me question a lot of things.

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I like pussy as much as the next guy,but I'd have to resort to the blue pill just to keep up with her.

Come on 48's not that bad, you're only two years older than Mr Brad Pitt.

Morgan Fairchild is 60 and I'd still hit

Susan Sarandon is 63 and I would very much like to tango with her.

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WinstonSmith wrote:

I like pussy as much as the next guy,but I'd have to resort to the blue pill just to keep up with her.

Come on 48's not that bad, you're only two years older than Mr Brad Pitt.[/quote


That's comforting LOL.Once you get past forty things start to slow down a little,it's just the nature of things.Women in their forties are like firecrackers in regard to their libido.Some of the best experiences I've had been with older women.

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I like pussy as much as the next guy,but I'd have to resort to the blue pill just to keep up with her.

Come on 48's not that bad, you're only two years older than Mr Brad Pitt.

Morgan Fairchild is 60 and I'd still hit

I'd tap it too.

franklinfan2 wrote:

I agree with LTFG. While this is every guy's fantasy, following through with it will put your marriage in jeopardy.

If I were you, I would sit down with your wife and have a talk with her. Tell her that while it is possible for a man to have a sexual relationship with someone without getting emotionally attached, it is impossible for a woman to do so.

If my wife came to me with this idea, I would tell her that I was disappointed that she would actually go through with such an idea. I would ask her if living out a fantasy is worth putting our marriage at risk. You might not understand how following through with this fantasy can put your marriage in jeopardy. But I am sure that you will find out if you go through with it.

+5

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

Is he still rich?

I think so.

The only other man she's fantasized about is Tom Selleck.What woman over 40 hasn't?

My wife isn't a Selleck fan at all... But she has always had a thing for Sam Elliott. She rarely speaks up about crushes other than Sammy, but I think she also digs Matthew McConaughey...?

My wife liked Sam Elliott in Roadhouse,but then again so did I in a different way.

Damn mad late to this party

I say you get them both pregnant and live life pimpin! Tell one to get a job and the other chick can watch the kids.

WinstonSmith wrote:

My wife liked Sam Elliott in Roadhouse,but then again so did I in a different way.

Roadhouse is the shit.

bigbeastcardinal12 wrote:

I say you get them both pregnant and live life pimpin! Tell one to get a job and the other chick can watch the kids.

lol I knew someone would say some shit like that.

Update

Well I had a good long talk with the wife last not about the possibilities of this ruining our marriage, and to be honest I still don't know what to do. We both feel like this wouldn't ruin it but I'm worried about taking the risk. I feel like no matter what I'm gonna regret this. If I don't do it then I regret not taking the chance to have the 3way when it might not have hurt anything. If I do it then what if things are deferent? This kinda sucks.

Right now I'm leaning toward doing it.

Not trying to be a party pooper but you should start protecting your assets just in case. MMA, you would know more about how to fix this situation than anyone else on here. LTFG made a very good point but you already knew that. The problem here is not that she asked you for a threesome but rather that she is sneaking around behind your back. Thats never a good thing. I'm not saying this situation can't be fixed because it certainly can but it's always smart to make sure you're protected financially. Things like this can get filthy in a hurry.

MMAEYES wrote:

Update

Well I had a good long talk with the wife last not about the possibilities of this ruining our marriage, and to be honest I still don't know what to do. We both feel like this wouldn't ruin it but I'm worried about taking the risk. I feel like no matter what I'm gonna regret this. If I don't do it then I regret not taking the chance to have the 3way when it might not have hurt anything. If I do it then what if things are deferent? This kinda sucks.

Right now I'm leaning toward doing it.

Not trying to pry and you don't have to anwer if you don't want. But u guys have any kids?

pull up your skirt and whip your dick out and fuck the shit out of both of them. I guess im the little devil on your shoulder why everyone else is playing angel. As long as you laid the ground work and she is as nervous as you are and you two agree this is a pleasure deal and not the beggining of a hobby...... DO WORK. Then lay the ground work again afterward and dont let her know how much you really enjoyed cause you must keep the upper hand AKA PIMPIN.

sokolkevin wrote:

pull up your skirt and whip your dick out and fuck the shit out of both of them. I guess im the little devil on your shoulder why everyone else is playing angel. As long as you laid the ground work and she is as nervous as you are and you two agree this is a pleasure deal and not the beggining of a hobby...... DO WORK. Then lay the ground work again afterward and dont let her know how much you really enjoyed cause you must keep the upper hand AKA PIMPIN.

If no kids are involved then I'm all for it. But if there are it complicates things a little bit. Losing your wife over some crazy shit is one thing, losing your kids though is completely different.

MMAEYES wrote:

Update

Well I had a good long talk with the wife last not about the possibilities of this ruining our marriage, and to be honest I still don't know what to do. We both feel like this wouldn't ruin it but I'm worried about taking the risk. I feel like no matter what I'm gonna regret this. If I don't do it then I regret not taking the chance to have the 3way when it might not have hurt anything. If I do it then what if things are deferent? This kinda sucks.

Right now I'm leaning toward doing it.

All or nothing

Cant go through with this feeling unsure of yourself

sokolkevin is on point with his post

LikesToFightGuy wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

Is he still rich?

I think so.

The only other man she's fantasized about is Tom Selleck.What woman over 40 hasn't?

My wife isn't a Selleck fan at all... But she has always had a thing for Sam Elliott. She rarely speaks up about crushes other than Sammy, but I think she also digs Matthew McConaughey...?

Of course she does, he's a product of the best University in all the land.

ohiovol62 wrote:

Not trying to be a party pooper but you should start protecting your assets just in case. MMA, you would know more about how to fix this situation than anyone else on here. LTFG made a very good point but you already knew that. The problem here is not that she asked you for a threesome but rather that she is sneaking around behind your back. Thats never a good thing. I'm not saying this situation can't be fixed because it certainly can but it's always smart to make sure you're protected financially. Things like this can get filthy in a hurry.

Sorry for not responding till now shit got crazy here at work. I hear ya don't worry I got my money taken care of. I'm more worried about losing my family, which is the only reason I would even consider saying no to this.

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

MMAEYES wrote:

Update

Well I had a good long talk with the wife last not about the possibilities of this ruining our marriage, and to be honest I still don't know what to do. We both feel like this wouldn't ruin it but I'm worried about taking the risk. I feel like no matter what I'm gonna regret this. If I don't do it then I regret not taking the chance to have the 3way when it might not have hurt anything. If I do it then what if things are deferent? This kinda sucks.

Right now I'm leaning toward doing it.

Not trying to pry and you don't have to anwer if you don't want. But u guys have any kids?

Yeah man I got 3 ages 10,6,3 they're the best

MMAEYES wrote:

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

MMAEYES wrote:

Update

Well I had a good long talk with the wife last not about the possibilities of this ruining our marriage, and to be honest I still don't know what to do. We both feel like this wouldn't ruin it but I'm worried about taking the risk. I feel like no matter what I'm gonna regret this. If I don't do it then I regret not taking the chance to have the 3way when it might not have hurt anything. If I do it then what if things are deferent? This kinda sucks.

Right now I'm leaning toward doing it.

Not trying to pry and you don't have to anwer if you don't want. But u guys have any kids?

Yeah man I got 3 ages 10,6,3 they're the best

Sorry then man, I wouldn't take any risk...even if the reward is extreme physical pleasure.

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Sorry then man, I wouldn't take any risk...even if the reward is extreme physical pleasure.

Even if your wife gave you a speech about how this wasn't about her trying something new but us both experiencing extreme physical pleasure together. Something that wouldn't pull us a part but closer together. All while unzipping your pants and getting ready to service you?

MMAEYES wrote:

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Sorry then man, I wouldn't take any risk...even if the reward is extreme physical pleasure.

Even if your wife gave you a speech about how this wasn't about her trying something new but us both experiencing extreme physical pleasure together. Something that wouldn't pull us a part but closer together. All while unzipping your pants and getting ready to service you?

Short term this is a very difficult to say no to. But long term this could be a problem. Do what you feel is right, that is the only real advice I could give you.

Well, it's been obvious where I stand from the beginning just thinking of it from the relationship point of view. Knowing kids are part of the equation enforces that thought all the more. There's a lot more to think about for both the man and woman than just an act of sexual desire. What if the kids or other family mambers find out? How the hell does one explain something like this, especially to your children? "Well, we were really horny, she was hot as hell, and we thought we'd both like to munch on that mound, rest of the world be damned".

I just see no way anything good (Other than those few minutes) can come of this. Yet, there is soooo much bad that can come of this...