I need some advice

So a couple of weeks ago my wife asks me if I would want to bring another woman into the bedroom with us. Of course I'm thinking this is a trick I'm not falling for that shit so I tell her all I need is her. But she didn't let it go she tells me she wants to do it and all this shit I never thought I would hear out of her mouth like she don't care what I do with a chick as long as shes there. So I'm thinking I hit the jackpot but maybe not here's my dilemma.

Getting ready for work this morning I just felt the need to take a look at my wifes phone. Which is totally unlike me I've never felt like she might be doing something wrong. Low and behold shes got plans with this hot chick friend of hers to spend the night together popping my woman's girl on girl cherry! But to my dismay no discussion of my involvement, she hasn't told me shit about it. I know she isn't just turning lesbian believe me. But I don't know whether to just be turned on by it and tell her to remember to take pictures or take the video recorder or should I be pissed? Or should I just keep my mouth closed and hope this is the girl she wants to bring home?

What would you do? On the one hand it's fucked up because she tells me we can do whatever to another chick as long as we are both involved, but on the other this may be her preparing the situation.

idk man sounds a little shady let me think about this and ill give you a better opinion.

wow crazy story. Don't really know what to tell you. But damn what a story, hope you get to live the dream.

The fact your wife is fantasizing about being with another women is not a good sign.

man I have been there and so have some of my buddies. Just remember girls are attracted to girls for the most part. My wife says the same shit that she loves to see another hot girl enjoy my dick. I guess she likes to share. So far so good man but be very careful cause my boy had his wife set if up at first and it was all good and low and behold she was having a relationship with the girl behind his back and figured whats the big deal you fucked her. Remember bitches get attatched emotionally and can fuck a good thing up. Just be sure she wants if for you as much as she wants it and you two get involved every time with no bullshit. Warning dont do it with her friend cause thats when things get fucked up and they get all attached to each others vaginas and shit. Find a girl on the internet of some shit with no strings attached. Give it a try and see how she reacts if she is more into the girl than the trio thats your red flag and back out asap or atleast after you bust. Also get the past out of her and make sure she hasnt had a lesbian experience cause if so she has it in her. Just my piece of thought dont take any of it the wrong way and good luck my friend.

sounds like risky territory, If you really love your wife you might want to talk this thing out.

lol after reading the topic and the first line I thought to myself this is a fucking no brainer but then you spilled the beans.

listen to sokolkevin i was gonna say the same thing or she might turn around and have sex with another dude someday and just say hey well you fucked my friend so what. also the emotion part ya mos def watch out for that shit man bitches are nuts.

Thanks for the help guys, this is new shit to me. I'm not worried about her losing interest in me, without getting into to much detail, just know I keep her happy. I just thought she was running her mouth but turns out she means business.

sokolkevin wrote:

lol after reading the topic and the first line I thought to myself this is a fucking no brainer but then you spilled the beans.

I didn't know if I should post this but I need advice. I can't just talk about this to my other friends or family cause you know how people are, everyone would know.

josh200612 wrote:

listen to sokolkevin i was gonna say the same thing or she might turn around and have sex with another dude someday and just say hey well you fucked my friend so what. also the emotion part ya mos def watch out for that shit man bitches are nuts.

Yeah this is the kind of stuff I'm affraid of.

MMA, you're in a no win situation here. If your wife is heading this direction it means you aren't satisfying her, no matter what you might think. If you go through with it (Bad idea), she will either freak and your relationship takes a big hit (Even if it is her idea), or it becomes a regular occurance (Meaning "just you" isn't enough) which isn't healthy for a relationship either. The fact that she's setting things up without you isn't a good sign either, obviously. You have just stumbled up on a very unsatisfied woman... This goes far beyond curiosity. If I was you, I would call her on the texts and see how she responds... If you know your wife at all, her response will tell you all you need to know in how to proceed.

OK shits all good. I just got a call from the wife telling me about her messages that I found this morning(she still doesn't know I found them) and she wants US to go stay at this chicks house this weekend. Holy shit I think this is gonna happen. This sounds to good to be true.

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Spoken like a true man! lol

Tell her you want all her friends at the same time, not just a 3-some. These kind of things ruin relationships so at the very least you should pound all of her friends before the shit hits the fan.

LikesToFightGuy wrote:

MMA, you're in a no win situation here. If your wife is heading this direction it means you aren't satisfying her, no matter what you might think. If you go through with it (Bad idea), she will either freak and your relationship takes a big hit (Even if it is her idea), or it becomes a regular occurance (Meaning "just you" isn't enough) which isn't healthy for a relationship either. The fact that she's setting things up without you isn't a good sign either, obviously. You have just stumbled up on a very unsatisfied woman... This goes far beyond curiosity. If I was you, I would call her on the texts and see how she responds... If you know your wife at all, her response will tell you all you need to know in how to proceed.

Thanks man. Maybe your right. She did tell me about her texts on her own just a min ago and she doesn't know I already read them. Turns out she was including me in the plans, but this is still scary to me.

Did you try hitting her?

Bigs03 wrote:

Tell her you want all her friends at the same time, not just a 3-some. These kind of things ruin relationships so at the very least you should pound all of her friends before the shit hits the fan.

Do you really want a room of unstaisfied women? You better get a red bull and some viagra.

Bigs03 wrote:

Tell her you want all her friends at the same time, not just a 3-some. These kind of things ruin relationships so at the very least you should pound all of her friends before the shit hits the fan.

Now that is some good advice! lol

GDPofDRC wrote:

Did you try hitting her?

not infront of the kids would that help? lol jk

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Bigs03 wrote:

Tell her you want all her friends at the same time, not just a 3-some. These kind of things ruin relationships so at the very least you should pound all of her friends before the shit hits the fan.

Do you really want a room of unstaisfied women? You better get a red bull and some viagra.

Maybe if you're a Sooner...

This would be like a dream if it was just with some chick your dating but with a wife its pretty scary territory. Hopefully everything works out for you

Bigs03 wrote:

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Bigs03 wrote:

Tell her you want all her friends at the same time, not just a 3-some. These kind of things ruin relationships so at the very least you should pound all of her friends before the shit hits the fan.

Do you really want a room of unstaisfied women? You better get a red bull and some viagra.

Maybe if you're a Sooner...

OH SHIT! that was a good one