I need some advice

So has your girl ever been into females before? done anything w/one? You said girl on girl cherry

Kinda strange to all of a sudden have that urge to want a female

Ask her why now, she what she says and go from there

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Bigs03 wrote:

Tell her you want all her friends at the same time, not just a 3-some. These kind of things ruin relationships so at the very least you should pound all of her friends before the shit hits the fan.

Do you really want a room of unstaisfied women? You better get a red bull and some viagra.

Don't worry sooner, I am sure Wolfy will lend his penis pump to you

Bigs03 wrote:

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Bigs03 wrote:

Tell her you want all her friends at the same time, not just a 3-some. These kind of things ruin relationships so at the very least you should pound all of her friends before the shit hits the fan.

Do you really want a room of unstaisfied women? You better get a red bull and some viagra.

Maybe if you're a Sooner...

ha ha, your shorthorn ass would be asleep after 5 min. You better hope they record that lesbo fest while you are sleeping.

Ali_1748 wrote:

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Bigs03 wrote:

Tell her you want all her friends at the same time, not just a 3-some. These kind of things ruin relationships so at the very least you should pound all of her friends before the shit hits the fan.

Do you really want a room of unstaisfied women? You better get a red bull and some viagra.

Don't worry sooner, I am sure Wolfy will lend his penis pump to you

It better come with a shot of B-12 and some Gatorade. That's gonna be some work!

bobbitt15 wrote:

This would be like a dream if it was just with some chick your dating but with a wife its pretty scary territory. Hopefully everything works out for you

Thanks bobbitt15 most of me is saying lets do this shit and the rest of me thinks this ain't such a good idea. That's why I needed advice. But atleast now I know I jumped the gun on thinking she was setting up a booty call for just herself.

MMAEYES wrote:

LikesToFightGuy wrote:

MMA, you're in a no win situation here. If your wife is heading this direction it means you aren't satisfying her, no matter what you might think. If you go through with it (Bad idea), she will either freak and your relationship takes a big hit (Even if it is her idea), or it becomes a regular occurance (Meaning "just you" isn't enough) which isn't healthy for a relationship either. The fact that she's setting things up without you isn't a good sign either, obviously. You have just stumbled up on a very unsatisfied woman... This goes far beyond curiosity. If I was you, I would call her on the texts and see how she responds... If you know your wife at all, her response will tell you all you need to know in how to proceed.

Thanks man. Maybe your right. She did tell me about her texts on her own just a min ago and she doesn't know I already read them. Turns out she was including me in the plans, but this is still scary to me.

If you value your relationship, the fact that this was even brought up should scare the shit out of you...

You want to dive in thinking that the fantasy of most men is about to be realized, but that fantasy doesn't and shouldn't exist for happily married men and women. A few minutes of pleasure doesn't outweigh the likely consequences... I don't envy you for even being presented with this, and I certainly don't envy you if you go through with it. You better have a steady supply of anti-anxiety medicine, because once the two of you have gone through with it your life will never be the same. Your concience can't be clear and you will always be wondering who and what's next for your wife (Now knowing she isn't satisfied with normal monogamous sexual behavior) and will you be privy to her wants, needs and intentions...

Good luck MMA...

give it a shot man but im telling you now if she asks for seconds any time soon your bound for failure. This is a pleasure only deal and should happen only on bday's, new years etc. When you make it a hobby one person is bound to fuck it all up and most of the time its the lady. Try it out man but pay close attention to her during and the days after. If she goes ape shit than she is either bored with life or into woman alot more than you think and thats not healthy. Let her set it up but afterwards you have to run shit or else its her game and you lose. Also let her know if she tries to set anything up in the future without your consent thats the number one code of the trio honor and all bets are off. just be careful with the friend thing cause its easy for girls to lie to you about whats really going on behind your back. you think there out having drinks and really there face down in each other laps. keep your pimp hand strong my friend and dont let your emotions get to you where she can see how happy you are then it just makes her game easier. Act like its a fantasy you have had but no big deal cause she is the only one you need. feed her plenty of bullshit it will work out in the end for all.

LikesToFightGuy wrote:

MMAEYES wrote:

LikesToFightGuy wrote:

MMA, you're in a no win situation here. If your wife is heading this direction it means you aren't satisfying her, no matter what you might think. If you go through with it (Bad idea), she will either freak and your relationship takes a big hit (Even if it is her idea), or it becomes a regular occurance (Meaning "just you" isn't enough) which isn't healthy for a relationship either. The fact that she's setting things up without you isn't a good sign either, obviously. You have just stumbled up on a very unsatisfied woman... This goes far beyond curiosity. If I was you, I would call her on the texts and see how she responds... If you know your wife at all, her response will tell you all you need to know in how to proceed.

Thanks man. Maybe your right. She did tell me about her texts on her own just a min ago and she doesn't know I already read them. Turns out she was including me in the plans, but this is still scary to me.

If you value your relationship, the fact that this was even brought up should scare the shit out of you...

You want to dive in thinking that the fantasy of most men is about to be realized, but that fantasy doesn't and shouldn't exist for happily married men and women. A few minutes of pleasure doesn't outweigh the likely consequences... I don't envy you for even being presented with this, and I certainly don't envy you if you go through with it. You better have a steady supply of anti-anxiety medicine, because once the two of you have gone through with it your life will never be the same. Your concience can't be clear and you will always be wondering who and what's next for your wife (Now knowing she isn't satisfied with normal monogamous sexual behavior) and will you be privy to her wants, needs and intentions...

Good luck MMA...

first of all how long have you been married and has she done this before. Has she hinted at it in the past or what. you have to know your history and get the upper hand before you risk a few hours of pleasure for the rest of your life. Alslo if you said no do you think she would venture out sooner or later anyway or is she doing it for you. dont let her bullshit you man and dont act like a kid in the candy store cause you mine as well hand your balls over now.

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Bigs03 wrote:

OUSOONERSOU wrote:

Bigs03 wrote:

Tell her you want all her friends at the same time, not just a 3-some. These kind of things ruin relationships so at the very least you should pound all of her friends before the shit hits the fan.

Do you really want a room of unstaisfied women? You better get a red bull and some viagra.

Maybe if you're a Sooner...

ha ha, your shorthorn ass would be asleep after 5 min. You better hope they record that lesbo fest while you are sleeping.

gomez1012 wrote:

So has your girl ever been into females before? done anything w/one? You said girl on girl cherry

Kinda strange to all of a sudden have that urge to want a female

Ask her why now, she what she says and go from there

She hasn't done anything with girls before. She might have been attracted to girls before and not said anything. She is the kind of girl who is real shy and doesn't talk unless she knows the people shes around. Shes always been the sweet and innocent type. I think shes just getting wild for the first time in her life.

ight

yea man, worth asking her why now, try and get at what she's looking for getting wild and how you fit in the picture

MMAEYES wrote:

gomez1012 wrote:

So has your girl ever been into females before? done anything w/one? You said girl on girl cherry

Kinda strange to all of a sudden have that urge to want a female

Ask her why now, she what she says and go from there

She hasn't done anything with girls before. She might have been attracted to girls before and not said anything. She is the kind of girl who is real shy and doesn't talk unless she knows the people shes around. Shes always been the sweet and innocent type. I think shes just getting wild for the first time in her life.

if you know for sure its the first than go for it and sit down afterwards and lay the ground work that it is a pleasure only thing and will not become a hobby. once a year man any more your doomed. strap up man take no chances cause most girls that are down for the trio's tend to get around atleast most of them do.

LikesToFightGuy wrote:

If you value your relationship, the fact that this was even brought up should scare the shit out of you...

You want to dive in thinking that the fantasy of most men is about to be realized, but that fantasy doesn't and shouldn't exist for happily married men and women. A few minutes of pleasure doesn't outweigh the likely consequences... I don't envy you for even being presented with this, and I certainly don't envy you if you go through with it. You better have a steady supply of anti-anxiety medicine, because once the two of you have gone through with it your life will never be the same. Your concience can't be clear and you will always be wondering who and what's next for your wife (Now knowing she isn't satisfied with normal monogamous sexual behavior) and will you be privy to her wants, needs and intentions...

Good luck MMA...

You make good points I appreciate the advice

sokolkevin wrote:

first of all how long have you been married?

7 years

7 yrs is a good thing man just lay the ground work and dont fuck up your future. 4 titts are better than 2

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

Is he still rich?

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

Is he still rich?

I think so.

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

Is he still rich?

I think so.

The only other man she's fantasized about is Tom Selleck.What woman over 40 hasn't?

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

Is he still rich?

I think so.

The only other man she's fantasized about is Tom Selleck.What woman over 40 hasn't?

You should grow a mustache and buy a Hawiian shirt to please her

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

Is he still rich?

I think so.

The only other man she's fantasized about is Tom Selleck.What woman over 40 hasn't?

You should grow a mustache and buy a Hawiian shirt to please her

While I'm at it.perhaps Higgins will allow me to borrow Robin Masters Ferrari.

I agree with LTFG. While this is every guy's fantasy, following through with it will put your marriage in jeopardy.

If I were you, I would sit down with your wife and have a talk with her. Tell her that while it is possible for a man to have a sexual relationship with someone without getting emotionally attached, it is impossible for a woman to do so.

If my wife came to me with this idea, I would tell her that I was disappointed that she would actually go through with such an idea. I would ask her if living out a fantasy is worth putting our marriage at risk. You might not understand how following through with this fantasy can put your marriage in jeopardy. But I am sure that you will find out if you go through with it.

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

Is he still rich?

I think so.

The only other man she's fantasized about is Tom Selleck.What woman over 40 hasn't?

You should grow a mustache and buy a Hawiian shirt to please her

I'm afraid if I grew a stache' like that I'd never be able to get her off my face.

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

Ali_1748 wrote:

WinstonSmith wrote:

I have no problem if my wife wanted to mess around with another woman,but if it was with another man,all bets are off.

Even if that man is John Stamos ?

Is he still rich?

I think so.

The only other man she's fantasized about is Tom Selleck.What woman over 40 hasn't?

You should grow a mustache and buy a Hawiian shirt to please her

I'm afraid if I grew a stache' like that I'd never be able to get her off my face.

I don't see the problem here

I like pussy as much as the next guy,but I'd have to resort to the blue pill just to keep up with her.

WinstonSmith wrote:

I like pussy as much as the next guy,but I'd have to resort to the blue pill just to keep up with her.

Come on 48's not that bad, you're only two years older than Mr Brad Pitt.