Advice needed

My girlfriend is going on a 2 week vacation to VA to see her bestfriend from childhood. I will be staying here in Texas, because I work. Her friend is an Air Force girl. I have heard military women are usually wild whores. So I am kind of uptight about her running around with this girl for 2 weeks on a military base, and clubs getting drunk. Do I have a reason to be iffy about this situation? Or am I being insecure? I think what bugs me the most is assuming the worst happens, I would never find out about it, because it will be going on in a far away state, with people I will have never met. So how would you react to this, and what would you do?

Very tough situation because even if u trust her its still hard not to be at least alittle insecure. I would say u really have no choice but to trust her and hope for the best.

If she is a whore in 1 state she will be a whore in another. If she is a good woman she will stay a good woman.

If you're really worried about your girl going on vacation with one of her friends for a couple weeks, that's not a very good sign from my point of view. Relax

bobbitt15 wrote:

If you're really worried about your girl going on vacation with one of her friends for a couple weeks, that's not a very good sign from my point of view. Relax

I dont mind that, except she tends to be a follower. She does exactly whatever her friend at the time does. Thats the only reason I worry.

damn dude I dont want to scare you

But if I have a daughter, let me put it this way, she aint joining the army

timthebim wrote:

Very tough situation because even if u trust her its still hard not to be at least alittle insecure. I would say u really have no choice but to trust her and hope for the best.

This! Nothing you can do about this situation. Don't call her even if you haven't heard from her for a week. If you are bugging her while she is gone it will send a negative vibe, and you can be sure that her friend will talk shit about you calling her and playing check up. If she doesn't hear from you she might be wondering about what you're doing. I think that is the best way to approach this situation.

bigbeastcardinal12 wrote:

timthebim wrote:

Very tough situation because even if u trust her its still hard not to be at least alittle insecure. I would say u really have no choice but to trust her and hope for the best.

This! Nothing you can do about this situation. Don't call her even if you haven't heard from her for a week. If you are bugging her while she is gone it will send a negative vibe, and you can be sure that her friend will talk shit about you calling her and playing check up. If she doesn't hear from you she might be wondering about what you're doing. I think that is the best way to approach this situation.

BBC said it perfectly! Go out with the friends and get drunk just like she will be doing have a little vacation of your own at home.

Totally agree with Josh and Beast.

I am rarely serious on the forums, But if you have concerns they are probably because some part of you thinks or knows she is capable of being unfaithfull. Was she dating someone when you met her? Has she cheated on you? Gets drunk and sloppy? I would figure out why you feel this way and address it internally and if you come to the conclusion that your thoughts or worries arnt made up of your own insecurities then its time to cut your losses and bang different chicks untill you find one that you trust totally.

Feel the same Cubes. That was my first reaction

my 2nd reaction


Who the hell are those chics staring each other down?

Birdofthad wrote:

my 2nd reaction


Who the hell are those chics staring each other down?

+1

So, I got an update and some drama. Need more advice..

My girlfriend went on her trip. Her friend and her friends boyfriend have a 2 bedroom, 2 bed, 1 couch apartment. My girlfriend calls me last night (first time I heard from her in 3 days) and tells me how she has been sleeping in the same bed as her friends boyfriend, and that her friend has been in a different room with her baby. She goes on to tell me that her friends boyfriend "cuddles" with her, and that he is really nice and funny. Turns out there is a picture of the half naked guy laying pretty much ontop of my girlfriend...

Should I be mad? and if so, how do I handle it?

OMG I would be pissed LOL! WTF is going on there buddy? What did you say? Ask her how she would feel if this was you doing this.

josh200612 wrote:

OMG I would be pissed LOL! WTF is going on there buddy? What did you say? Ask her how she would feel if this was you doing this.

Man idk. I dont know what the fuck to think. I did ask her how she would feel, and she said she wouldnt like it. She said it was harmless.

jewzilla wrote:

josh200612 wrote:

OMG I would be pissed LOL! WTF is going on there buddy? What did you say? Ask her how she would feel if this was you doing this.

Man idk. I dont know what the fuck to think. I did ask her how she would feel, and she said she wouldnt like it. She said it was harmless.

she's lyin fuck that shit man if she's got a half naked dude layin on her theres more goin on than what she told you. go find you same random strange and bang the hell out of it.

Are they going out drinking and end up in the same room same bed at the end of the night? You know something goes down then. That's like my dude letting me sleep with his GF while he is in the room with the baby yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa right that shit ain't happening my ass is on the couch.

it smells fishy, thats for sure

killerofchicken wrote:

it smells fishy, thats for sure

U got that right. I would Brett Rogers that bitch!

josh200612 wrote:

Are they going out drinking and end up in the same room same bed at the end of the night? You know something goes down then. That's like my dude letting me sleep with his GF while he is in the room with the baby yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa right that shit ain't happening my ass is on the couch.

She said she hasnt drank since shes been there. I still just find it odd that she is sleeping in the same bed as her friends boyfriend, and he is all cuddled up with her. She says they havent fucked or nothing, because it is her friends man. But people are so fucking ridiculous now days, I would not put that past them. And for real, I asked her, why were you not sleeping in a different room, bed, couch, or the fuckin floor. It just doesnt make sense to me.

jewzilla wrote:

josh200612 wrote:

Are they going out drinking and end up in the same room same bed at the end of the night? You know something goes down then. That's like my dude letting me sleep with his GF while he is in the room with the baby yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa right that shit ain't happening my ass is on the couch.

She said she hasnt drank since shes been there. I still just find it odd that she is sleeping in the same bed as her friends boyfriend, and he is all cuddled up with her. She says they havent fucked or nothing, because it is her friends man. But people are so fucking ridiculous now days, I would not put that past them. And for real, I asked her, why were you not sleeping in a different room, bed, couch, or the fuckin floor. It just doesnt make sense to me.

Is the pic on Facebook or something? IDK dude that shit is just weird to me. Is her friend a slut? Have they ever messed around before? They might be pulling the whole 3 some thing girlfriends do that shit lol. How old is she?

josh200612 wrote:

jewzilla wrote:

josh200612 wrote:

Are they going out drinking and end up in the same room same bed at the end of the night? You know something goes down then. That's like my dude letting me sleep with his GF while he is in the room with the baby yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa right that shit ain't happening my ass is on the couch.

She said she hasnt drank since shes been there. I still just find it odd that she is sleeping in the same bed as her friends boyfriend, and he is all cuddled up with her. She says they havent fucked or nothing, because it is her friends man. But people are so fucking ridiculous now days, I would not put that past them. And for real, I asked her, why were you not sleeping in a different room, bed, couch, or the fuckin floor. It just doesnt make sense to me.

Is the pic on Facebook or something? IDK dude that shit is just weird to me. Is her friend a slut? Have they ever messed around before? They might be pulling the whole 3 some thing girlfriends do that shit lol. How old is she?

No its not on facebook. My girlfriend sent it to me in a text message. And yeah its weird as hell man. I dont think her friend is a slut. I have never met her friend, or the girls boyfriend. Im in Texas, they are all the way in white trash Virginia. But yeah the threesome thing is what I am worried about. Or maybe even her friend just being cool with her boyfriend smashing on my girlfriend. Idk what to think. and she is 20.

Sending that shit in a txt lol wtf? R they trying to piss you off wow? Did it say anything? Ugh man 20? That's a toss up dude it all depends on how long you have been dating her and if you live with each other etc. How old are you?

Also I would love to see that pic and be the judge lol but I understand if you don't wanna post it.