Sad Jew

Time to break the silence.

THE STORY JOSH HAS BEEN WAITING FOR.

Alright guys so after 6 weeks of horrible depression because of my "girlfriend" wanting to leave me, she finally called it quits.

So. My now ex girlfriends skank sister came into town 2 saturdays ago. She influenced my ex very much so, and I knew it. So my ex starts blowing me off the night she gets there. She told me she was sick and she needed to go to bed. that was at 10pm. I became curious, and had my buddy drive by her house around 12am. When he drove by, he found that they were having a big ass party at her house. My ex was dressed up real nice, and drinking a beer. Her neighbor guy (Who took her virginity when she was 14 and he was 19) had also returned home the same day. My friend saw him outside in his drivway, but not talking to my ex. So the next day she texts me and asks me what I want to do about it. I told her I can get over it if she just tells me what happened. She said she got dressed because she couldnt sleep and went outside with everyone else, and didnt tell me because I dont drink, and she didnt want me to get mad. I forgave and forgot.

Life is good for the next week. We banged it out until thursday. Then all of the sudden she is in a bad mood and doesnt want to hangout. Instead she wants to go to sleep. I agree. She tells me I can take her to work the next morning, and I agree. So I take her to work friday morning, and I can tell something is weird. She couldnt look me in the face. Yet she promised me everything was ok. So I go home and take a nap. She is supposed to get off of work at 6pm, and I dont hear from her til 9pm. She texts me and says she is in a bad mood again, and just wants to stay home and watch a movie with her sister. I agree. She treats me like shit that night, and I notice she is spelling everything wrong. So I just go to bed and know something is wrong now.

Saturday gets there. She had told me earlier in the week that they were having a party and I was invited. I wanted to go just to have some fun, and drink a little for the first time since I had been off of steroids. I wake up and get dressed. I text and call her from 12pm, til 4pm. She never answered. Then at 5 I get a text that says " I am only in the relationship to keep you happy. My feelings for you changed a while back. I just want to have fun. So it is time we break up." I replied but that was all she had to say. TORE ME THE FUCK UP.

So 2 days pass. I text her bestfriend and ask her what the fuck went wrong. Her friend tells me to just text her because she didnt want to tell me herself. The news I got next was awful.

My ex sends me a text that says "You know I have lied to you. I cant do it anymore. I have been someone I wasnt for the last 2 years. It has made me hate myself, and I am truly sorry I did this to you."

Then she starts listing the things she had lied about...

1. I had asked her to quit smoking at the beginning of our relationship, because its nasty and it made her sick alot. Turns out she never fuckin quit. How she hid it, and how I never smelt it on her, I will never know. What I do know is she would NEVER let me go see her until she had showered and brushed her teeth. So that explains that. Still dont know how I couldnt tell being that I am a former smoker of 4 years myself.

2. She had gone to see her dad in Tennessee this august. FALSE! She told me she had gone to Las Vegas and stayed with her sister on her air force base for the week. The whole time she played it off by sending me pictures of stuff in Tennessee. She wouldnt admit to cheating there, but I did find a picture of her wearing the promise ring I bought her on her single hand. She admitted to to doing that while there. So she was "single" in Vegas.

3. I never asked her to stop drinking, but I asked that if she drank without me, she only drank with her girlfriends. NOT FUCKING HAPPENING. She has been getting drunk on nights she has told me she needs to sleep for work or school instead of letting me see her. THE ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP. She wouldnt tell me where all she has been getting drunk, but I cant believe I never heard of her being around town.

4. Her neighbor that used to molest her, yeah she is back with him. She wont admit it, but she is a fucking idiot and gave me her email a while back and forgot. So I logged onto her instagram, and found pictures of her with him. She has also been using 2 facebooks. One she has been living her life with me, the other she has been single.

5. This past friday night when she was upset and watched movies with her sister? WRONG she and her family had dinner with her new boyfriend and his family. AND they got drunk together.

So There ya have it. I am a fucking idiot. But damnit I loved her so much. Just this past week she asked me if I wanted to live together. She said she wanted to settle down and get married and have a kid... I had planned on proposing to her in october.

This has been the ultimate mind fuck, and I am having such horrible mixed emotions that I do not know what to do.

Fuck me for being stupid though. I dont know if I will ever trust a woman again. Much less want to fall in love and get married. The thing that sucks is I am not wanting to go back to partying with my friends, I am ready to settle down.

Enjoy the laughs.

Also I want to add that her "mom" used to ask me to stop by and pick her up some cigs on my way to their house... I would never see the mom, or get paid for them.. I would just be told to put them on the counter. Thats because I was buying them for my ex, not her mom.

jewzilla wrote:

Also I want to add that her "mom" used to ask me to stop by and pick her up some cigs on my way to their house... I would never see the mom, or get paid for them.. I would just be told to put them on the counter. Thats because I was buying them for my ex, not her mom.

Are you sure you weren't buying them for her other man?

He didnt get home until 2 weeks ago. So they were definitely hers.

jewzilla wrote:

He didnt get home until 2 weeks ago. So they were definitely hers.

I'm talking about the other, other guy.

fuck me.

upload the topless pics you got of her to the internet ..

im kidding of course .. but i would certainly laugh about it

sounds like you're better off out of it jewzilla.

easier said than done perhaps but just fuck her off and get out there and try and have some fun yourself. when you feel good about yourself good things are more likely to come to you, don't let this shit fester.

So much to yell at you about. I will later.

It continues.

I spoke with her mother. Found out the truth about her. She was not cheating. Her family will not let that guy into their house, nor will they let her be around him without their family being around.

So.. She decided she loved me too much to leave. I said fuck it ok lets give it one more chance. I went to her house yesterday. We hungout and everything seemed great.

She asked me to take her to work this morning. I agreed.

So I get to her house. We talk while she gets dressed. She smokes a cigarette infront of me. I smile and act like its nothing. She decides to go in and brush her teeth. She left her phone sitting in the chair. So I let my impulses get to me, and decide to look through her texts.

I find texts to her neighbor guy. One conversation has to do with him picking up his dads bowl from their dinner a few weeks ago. Then I scroll up, and I find texts saying "Justin dont you fall asleep on me!!!" and "I hope I get to see you tonight."....

I blew a gasket and confronted her. She said they were old and I was overreacting. She started telling me to get the fuck out whenever I started screaming. I wouldnt at first. But she went in her moms room and sat silently til i left. On the way out I told her mom that her daughter was a cunt whore.

When I got outside to get in my truck. I see that kids car sitting in his driveway. She called him and told him not to go outside. So instead I picked up a lawn chair, and smashed it into his car, then proceeded to drive home.

Now she is saying that she doesnt care for him, but she cares for me. She says they are only friends.

Getting ridiculous.

Still waiting for the tongue lashing from Josh. This should add to it.

Great jew. Now you might get in trouble on top of all this. You need to get her out of your life because she clearly isn't happy being with you. You're both young and she h.asn't been able to spread her wings fully. Best thing to do is be done with her and spend a good year or two apart. If not, you will be bitching at her every time something doesn't go your way, or every time she wants to go out with friends. I cheated on my ex wife in my twenties and never heard the end of it. I couldn't ever go out with my friends and we were unhappy half of the time. We have children and tried to make it work bit it didn't. People are the same when it comes to this stuff. You wanna continue this path and turn around ten years from now and be back on the market? Don't waste your prime years of barhopping on a girl that wants you and someone on the side.

OMG! I need time before I write a whole bunch lol damn man you just don't know when to quit. I'll do it tonight for sure so I can get something in your stupid fucking head.

Man you are just a glutton for punishment aren't you?

Fuck it I'm gonna do it now.

First you can't tell her what to do like no smoking or no drinking with your friends. She is not your property and you are not her daddy. She gets turned off by this and is gonna do it anyways because you are acting like her father. You are both young and need to stay away from each other for a couple of years or forever.

She has lied to you a million times now and yes she has cheated on you with that guy or whoever else you have a gut feeling about. Her parents don't know shit she lies to them too obviously you can tell by that txt they have been sneaking around seeing each other.

You need to stop talking to her no matter what can't you see that history keeps repeating itself? No facebook friends no emails no txts no calls no nothing. Your're just hurting yourself she feels no pain what so ever just getting annoyed I can only imagine what she says about you behind your back.

Do everything you can to be together with this girl, for reals. She is your one and only. You deserve to be together and you know this, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. It will all work out so long as you keep at it. You have come to far to turn back now. You are so close don't waffle away from what is yours, not now. You can dew it.

Jew, you're starting to sound like a stage 5 clinger right about now. Be a man goddammit!

Ludo, you couldnt have said it any better. I have been a clinger no doubt. I served her my balls on a silver platter at the same time.

Its ok though. She is at work (I am assuming), and I just sent her a text that basically said what Josh said. I am not her daddy, and I cant tell her what to do, or control her. BUT at the same time, if she wanted to be my girlfriend, she would give me the motherfucking respect to not be trying to be "friends" with that guy.

I have no room to tell her not to drink and smoke. I can have my preference, but if I dont like her decision, then too bad for me. With that said, a girlfriend of 2 years and friend of 5 shouldnt be blowing me off, and probably blowing him. It isnt right.

But yah. Told her I have been a clinger, and that if she wants out, then I will quit trying to make it work.

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No if bro you don't want her to be your gf. Move on I'm telling ya you can live without her lol there are plenty of girls waiting for you to be inside them and you'll probably find the one that actually communicates with you and doesn't lie or cheat or drink or smoke. Communication is everything in a relationship and if you don't have it it's fucked. This girl obviously doesn't have it and you don't want that I'm telling you the god's honest truth she is not for you bro leave her alone.

I hope jew keeps getting screwed over for being this dumb.

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I blew a gasket and confronted her. She said they were old and I was overreacting. She started telling me to get the fuck out whenever I started screaming. I wouldnt at first. But she went in her moms room and sat silently til i left. On the way out I told her mom that her daughter was a cunt whore.

When I got outside to get in my truck. I see that kids car sitting in his driveway. She called him and told him not to go outside. So instead I picked up a lawn chair, and smashed it into his car, then proceeded to drive home.

Ali wrote:

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I blew a gasket and confronted her. She said they were old and I was overreacting. She started telling me to get the fuck out whenever I started screaming. I wouldnt at first. But she went in her moms room and sat silently til i left. On the way out I told her mom that her daughter was a cunt whore.

When I got outside to get in my truck. I see that kids car sitting in his driveway. She called him and told him not to go outside. So instead I picked up a lawn chair, and smashed it into his car, then proceeded to drive home.

And just imagine, he's been off TRT for a while now!

Ludo wrote:

Ali wrote:

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I blew a gasket and confronted her. She said they were old and I was overreacting. She started telling me to get the fuck out whenever I started screaming. I wouldnt at first. But she went in her moms room and sat silently til i left. On the way out I told her mom that her daughter was a cunt whore.

When I got outside to get in my truck. I see that kids car sitting in his driveway. She called him and told him not to go outside. So instead I picked up a lawn chair, and smashed it into his car, then proceeded to drive home.

And just imagine, he's been off TRT for a while now!

No TRT for an entire month sucka. I feel better too.

Ps she called me saying she messed up and wants to be together.

I'll share my response after everyone guesses what it was.

Whoever guess' right gets a free beej from cubua cause he is a prick.

jewzilla wrote:

No TRT for an entire month sucka. I feel better too.

Ps she called me saying she messed up and wants to be together.

I'll share my response after everyone guesses what it was.

Whoever guess' right gets a free beej from cubua cause he is a prick.

You kept being a total vagina and said "anything for you, baby".