Sad Jew

You guys can think I am a douchebag that trolls your board and whatnot, but..

My girlfriend left me yesterday. This is easily the most upset I have ever been in my life (havent experienced any death in the family yet).

Anybody got any good advice on how to get over it? And no I do not want to get drunk or smoke any bud.

Need some real advice.

Thanks.

well I'm sorry to hear that bud, never fun especially if you've been with her for a while. At least try to look at it this way, at least you didn't marry her and then have all the shit hit the fan.
Take your time, don't get drunk (especially this early), happy hour starts in a couple hours, maybe grab a drink with a friend, don't over do it.
Wait for tomorrow cause strip clubs have deals on tuesday, especially if your in dallas area.

Im bad at giving advice on this though cause I haven't had relationships that got very serious. I tend to get out of them when that starts.

Thanks dude.

Its tough cause she has been my bestfriend for about 6 years. And it seems like all of that has been ruined. Just tough to let go of. Im a mean little bastard and am a hard ass to the bone, but this has gotten to me.

jewzilla wrote:

Thanks dude.

Its tough cause she has been my bestfriend for about 6 years. And it seems like all of that has been ruined. Just tough to let go of. Im a mean little bastard and am a hard ass to the bone, but this has gotten to me.

no real advise but you have to let it hurt for a little bit and not try to mask it with other stuff.. a lot of dudes will say to go get laid or some shit but that could make things worse.. it won't be long before you will be able to move on ..

I don't think you're a douchebag.

Stuff I've done...

- go down to the beach/woods/someplace away and outside, for the weekend, have some fun with buddies.

- bang one of her friends, laugh about it later

- Go to Lowes, buy $xx worth of stuff, build some cool wooden monument or statue, burn it to the ground at barbeque this weekend in the name of moving on. I built a totem pole out of pine lumbar, painted with black and red sharpies and everything. Burned that thing real good.

- Now that I think about, I usually bang a bunch of chicks after a long term relationship breakup. Something about anger and losing respect for the opposite for a while does that.

- Seriously, get out of town.

road trip with a few good friends always helps out. gives you time to talk it out and like a real man cry it out! i mean... what? i didnt say that

damn well ya, Im lucky, my best girl friend chick is just cool and were friends, thats probably were i go wrong, my girlfriends aren't close to being my best friend, I like the totem pole idea, thats not a bad idea.

I did get broken up with last December though, but I did the shallow thing and hooked up with her room mate.

Take a trip to Vegas for the weekend with your mates and take your mind off things.

Yeah I have a buddy in town that is about to deploy again. Probably spend a weekend with him and my other buds.

What do I do if she ends up wanting back into the relationship?

Would I be a sucker to go back?

Or what?

jewzilla wrote:

Yeah I have a buddy in town that is about to deploy again. Probably spend a weekend with him and my other buds.

What do I do if she ends up wanting back into the relationship?

Would I be a sucker to go back?

Or what?

That depends,

Was it a good relationship ?

What was the reasons for the break up ?

Do you love her ?

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Let it out brah!

First thing you do is NC (no contact) take her off facebook, email, phone etc. Go workout and keep busy with friends.

If she calls and txts do not answer. She'll come crawling back if you do but that's if you want her to just show her no emotion what so ever don't let her win she is the one that left you.

Go drink or whatever you do and have fun fuck somebody reach out and touch somebody lol.

What we all need to know is why did she leave you then we would probably have better advice.

josh200612 wrote:

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Let it out brah!

First thing you do is NC (no contact) take her off facebook, email, phone etc. Go workout and keep busy with friends.

If she calls and txts do not answer. She'll come crawling back if you do but that's if you want her to just show her no emotion what so ever don't let her win she is the one that left you.

Go drink or whatever you do and have fun fuck somebody reach out and touch somebody lol.

What we all need to know is why did she leave you then we would probably have better advice.

She went on another vacation. This time to Tennesse. Her sister lives in Vegas. I never saw any plane ticket or anything. Next thing I know she comes home after a week, and all the sudden about 10 people from Las Vegas, mostly men, are friends with her on facebook. I confronted her asking what the deal was, and she basically told me its none of my business. All down hill from there. I have a feeling she was in Vegas this whole time. But oh well. Wont find out now right.

jewzilla wrote:

Yeah I have a buddy in town that is about to deploy again. Probably spend a weekend with him and my other buds.

What do I do if she ends up wanting back into the relationship?

Would I be a sucker to go back?

Or what?

]]how old are you esse?

If she broke it off with you and isnt too young to know better then whats done is done, never go back. being youve been togethr for 6 yrs I will say she knows better and leave it be just hurt for awhile and suck it up buttercup. I hope you never loose someone close to you but sounds like you havnt experienced life

you do seem like a douche to me though

Cu Bu wrote:

jewzilla wrote:

Yeah I have a buddy in town that is about to deploy again. Probably spend a weekend with him and my other buds.

What do I do if she ends up wanting back into the relationship?

Would I be a sucker to go back?

Or what?

]]how old are you esse?

If she broke it off with you and isnt too young to know better then whats done is done, never go back. being youve been togethr for 6 yrs I will say she knows better and leave it be just hurt for awhile and suck it up buttercup. I hope you never loose someone close to you but sounds like you havnt experienced life

you do seem like a douche to me though

Not really a douche. Im very different than the assbackwards prick I play here at NP. I am a douche with my opinions here to try and keep a breath of life and spark debate, in this ghost board. Guess you can say I took a page out of my homie Chael Sonnens book.

also I am almost 22. Yah Im young yada yada. Heard it from everyone.

be young have fucking fun one day you will not be young, dont look back with regret. " This is not the droid you are looking for. " GO be with the homies live life, fuck hard, sometime maybe soon you will be in another relationship, this one may be your last(marriage) It all changes you might have 5 kids you might not have any, someone you love will die hopefully it doesnt change your life.

jewzilla wrote:

josh200612 wrote:

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Let it out brah!

First thing you do is NC (no contact) take her off facebook, email, phone etc. Go workout and keep busy with friends.

If she calls and txts do not answer. She'll come crawling back if you do but that's if you want her to just show her no emotion what so ever don't let her win she is the one that left you.

Go drink or whatever you do and have fun fuck somebody reach out and touch somebody lol.

What we all need to know is why did she leave you then we would probably have better advice.

She went on another vacation. This time to Tennesse. Her sister lives in Vegas. I never saw any plane ticket or anything. Next thing I know she comes home after a week, and all the sudden about 10 people from Las Vegas, mostly men, are friends with her on facebook. I confronted her asking what the deal was, and she basically told me its none of my business. All down hill from there. I have a feeling she was in Vegas this whole time. But oh well. Wont find out now right.

Damn man sloots gonna sloot. Don't even talk to her ever again. NEXT!

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I'm telling ya it's gonna hurt her and hit her real hard if you take her off facebook and don't respond to her. Update us when you can.

Did this juts happen? What was said and have you talked to her recently? Did you guys live with each other? Typing it out helps out a lot trust me.

josh200612 wrote:

I'm telling ya it's gonna hurt her and hit her real hard if you take her off facebook and don't respond to her. Update us when you can.

Did this juts happen? What was said and have you talked to her recently? Did you guys live with each other? Typing it out helps out a lot trust me.

Dude she was off of my facebook as soon as stuff ended. I have no use for people that have no use for me.

And yeah man she got home saturday and everything went to hell and a half.

I heard from her all day yesterday and somewhat today. She is making it seem like she doesnt want to end things, but she doesnt want to fess up either.

And no I dont live with her. She feels compelled to stay with her mother and siblings to take care of the siblings while her mother is ill. Which is often.

josh200612 wrote:

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Let it out brah!

First thing you do is NC (no contact) take her off facebook, email, phone etc. Go workout and keep busy with friends.

If she calls and txts do not answer. She'll come crawling back if you do but that's if you want her to just show her no emotion what so ever don't let her win she is the one that left you.

Go drink or whatever you do and have fun fuck somebody reach out and touch somebody lol.

What we all need to know is why did she leave you then we would probably have better advice.

That video is perfect.

jewzilla wrote:

josh200612 wrote:

I'm telling ya it's gonna hurt her and hit her real hard if you take her off facebook and don't respond to her. Update us when you can.

Did this juts happen? What was said and have you talked to her recently? Did you guys live with each other? Typing it out helps out a lot trust me.

Dude she was off of my facebook as soon as stuff ended. I have no use for people that have no use for me.

And yeah man she got home saturday and everything went to hell and a half.

I heard from her all day yesterday and somewhat today. She is making it seem like she doesnt want to end things, but she doesnt want to fess up either.

And no I dont live with her. She feels compelled to stay with her mother and siblings to take care of the siblings while her mother is ill. Which is often.

You gotta find out the TRUTH before you make any decisions.

Ya that video helps would of been better if it was his ex calling at the end though.

Just gunna take time and move on. Find a rebound chick for a min. Reconnect with your boys. Call your mom.

I haven't ever gotten back with a chick thats broken up with me or I've broken up with her so i can't speak about that.

Ali wrote:

jewzilla wrote:

Yeah I have a buddy in town that is about to deploy again. Probably spend a weekend with him and my other buds.

What do I do if she ends up wanting back into the relationship?

Would I be a sucker to go back?

Or what?

That depends,

Was it a good relationship ?

What was the reasons for the break up ?

Do you love her ?

This. Why did you break up?